|| queen of wilderness
- Lara Jean from #ToAllTheBoysIveLovedBefore 

Yes my dear. It is really hard to say “no” to people you love. #excerpt #love

- Lara Jean from #ToAllTheBoysIveLovedBefore

Yes my dear. It is really hard to say “no” to people you love. #excerpt #love

buhaybabae:

I STILL COULD NOT FIND THIS BOOK IN ANY BOOKSTORES IN MY CITY RIGHT NOW BUT YEAH, THIS GIVEAWAY IS STILL ON GOING :>

  1. Internships are the building blocks of your résumé. Apply to them. Meet people.
  2. Choose a degree that is relevant to the real world. Minor in History if you love it so much.
  3. Everyone knows how to use Microsoft Office. Putting it under the “Skills” section of your résumé is not impressive.
  4. See the world. This is the only time you have in your life to spend months in a foreign country. Take advantage of your lack of responsibility to travel.
  5. 99.9% of employers will never look at your transcript. A 4.0 GPA will not land you a job. Good interpersonal skills might.
  6. No employer cares whether you were on the executive board of your fraternity or sorority or other campus organization. Serve the organization because you love it, not simply to use it as space-filler on your résumé.
  7. Proofread everything. Twice. Or else no one will believe that you’re “detial-oriented.”
  8. You have four (or five) years to make something of yourself. Use that time wisely.
  9. Go out with your friends on a Tuesday night despite having a test on Wednesday. The test won’t matter in ten years, but your friendships will.
  10. Do not expect the college senior to fall in love with you after you sleep together. Actually, just don’t sleep together. This will not end well.
  11. Really get to know your professors. Use office hours to your advantage. You never know what doors they can open for you.
  12. Graduate school is rarely a good idea, especially if you’re only using it to delay the real world for a few years. The more money you make now, the less debt you’ll have later.
  13. Realize that you will be in debt until you’re forty. Make peace with this early.
  14. One bad grade won’t ruin your life. Get over yourself.
  15. Beware of credit cards. No matter what they say, money isn’t free.
  16. Don’t burn bridges. You never know when you might need help from someone.
  17. Eat good food. Nothing will make you feel worse than six straight nights of Ramen.
  18. Buy a plunger before you actually need said plunger. Just trust me on this one.
  19. Press save. It will keep you from having that 4:00am mental breakdown.
  20. All-nighters will not help you learn the material. Budget time throughout the day to study so that you can actually sleep before the final exam.
  21. Use a condom. No one wants that “I’m late” text.
  22. Work during the summers. Employers want someone with real-life experience.
  23. Call your mom once a week. She wants to stay involved in your life, and a twenty-minute phone conversation won’t kill you.
  24. You have four years to learn your alcohol limit. This will save you from puking at the office Christmas party.
  25. The college cafeteria will make you fat. So will alcohol. Be careful about what you’re putting into your body.
  26. Find a few hours each week to work out. Cardio is great stress relief.
  27. So is sex. Booty calls are sometimes necessary. Don’t beat yourself up for it in the morning.
  28. Learn to cook. Eating out is expensive and unhealthy. A few basics can last you a long time.
  29. Take pictures. Not everything has to be posted to Instagram, but you will want to have these memories documented.
  30. Volunteer. Not because you have to, but because you want to. The Humane Society always needs people to play with the animals.
  31. Learn how to budget. Your parents won’t be around to give you money forever.
  32. Buy shower shoes. Use them. Save yourself from foot fungus.
  33. Beer is expensive. Buy vodka.
  34. Interviews are nerve-wracking. Practice with a friend before you go.
  35. Find good references. They can be the difference between being offered your dream job and being turned down.
  36. It’s okay to turn down your first job offer to wait for a better one. Have faith in yourself.
  37. If you’re treated like a slave at your internship, it’s okay to leave. Find a company that sees your worth.
  38. Learn how to code HTML. This is an invaluable skill.
  39. Also learn Photoshop. Every company in the world needs someone who can design a poster.
  40. Take a couple classes just for fun. There’s a difference between smart and educated.
  41. Know your priorities. Stick to them.
  42. Start searching for a job a year before you graduate. It takes time to find something you want.
  43. Apply for jobs you may not be completely qualified for. You may be the only applicant.
  44. Don’t get too discouraged when you fail at something. Lay in bed for two days. Cry. Then get back up and start living again.
  45. Everyone has something to teach you. Listen to them.
  46. Make mistakes, but be sure to learn from them.
  47. Textbooks are expensive and you will never need them again. Rent, don’t buy.
  48. No one will ever care how wasted you were last night. They saw it first hand. Shut up.
  49. No one is responsible for you except you. Think twice before you do something.
  50. Don’t think that these have to be the best four years of your life. Life after graduation is pretty awesome too.
— 50 Things I Wish I Knew in College (via greetingsfromplanetkatya)
The worst type of crying wasn’t the kind everyone could see—the wailing on street corners, the tearing at clothes. No, the worst kind happened when your soul wept and no matter what you did, there was no way to comfort it. A section withered and became a scar on the part of your soul that survived. For people like me and Echo, our souls contained more scar tissue than life.
— Katie McGarry, Pushing the Limits (via quotes-shape-us)

malfoyficents:

Celebrities tweet condolences on the passing of Robert Williams

yolkpunk:

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girls who pretend to act stupid because they think it’s cute need to be slapped in the face with a brick

girls who pretend to act stupid because they think it’s cute need to be taught that their thoughts and opinions matter. so many girls are taught that being smart and capable is threatening to boys and will scare them away. please don’t hit these girls with bricks thanks

The person I reblogged this from has a quality blog and I recommend you all follow them

buhaydalaga:

WALANG PERFECT LOVE..

Walang tanga sa love, nagpapakatanga meron. Huwag mong sisihin yung partner mo kung pinaiyak ka niya, wala naman kasing perfect pagdating sa love. Kung hindi ka pa handa masaktan, sana hindi ka muna nagmahal. Kasi sa relasyon, iiyak ka lang kung totoong nagmamahal ka na, pero kung hindi, landian lang yan. Walang relasyon na puro sweetness at happiness. Pero hindi ko din kayo masisisi, mahirap talaga masaktan pero nasa level naman kasi yan ng mga lalaki, malas mo nalang talaga kung yung napili mo ay yung worst level.

LEVEL 1: Almost perfect- Yung pinapangarap ng mga babae- hatid sundo, lagging nagsusurprise, hindi nakakalimot tuwing may special na okasyon (birthday, Christmas)  kahit weeksary, monthsary o anniversary pa yan, nagkakatampuhan pero nanunuyo agad, alam ang salitang sorry, ginagawan ka ng assignment at projects, ipapakilala ka sa lahat, proud sayo, hindi lang ikaw yung pagtatanggol niya pati relasyon niyo.

LEVEL 2: Minsan nakakalimutan kang itext at tawagan, ni minsan hindi ka ginawan ng assignment o project, pag nagkatampuhan hindi ka susuyuin iintayin nalang lumipas yung tampo mo, hindi maarte, lahat ng trip mo trip din niya, minsan nagagalit din sa iyo at nasisigawan ka pag napipikon na siya.

LEVEL 3: Minsan mas pinipiling kasama ang barkada kaysa sayo, pag may lakad minsan hindi nagsasabi sayo, hindi ka inuupdate sa araw-araw, nakakatulog ng may galit kayo sa isa’t-isa, nagkakacrush ng iba, hindi nag-iipon para mabili ang mga gusto mo, walang pangarap para sa inyong dalawa, makasarili, mahilig sa salitang “kkb”.

LEVEL 4: Babaero, nagtatago sayo ng mga bagay-bagay, hindi man nag-ggf ng iba pero may nakakatext/nakakachat/tawagan na babae na hindi mo alam, ni minsan hindi ka pinakilalang girlfriend, tinatago yung relasyon niyo, hindi responsible, mahilig sa salitang “hindi ko na gagawin ulit”, madaming pangako na napako.

LEVEL 5: Malandi, harap-harapan kang ginagago, araw-araw ka pinapaiyak, sinasaktan ka na pisikal, kinukuhanan ka ng pera, nagpapabili sayo ng mga gamit, ni minsan hindi ka sinurprise, ni minsan kahit pisong load hindi ka naloadan, walang isang salita, walang paninindigan, walang kwenta.

Pero hindi ibig-sabihin non, na tama din lahat ng nabasa mo, kadalsan lang ng mga lalaki ganyan, pero malay mo isang araw ikaw ang dahilan kung bakit si LEVEL 5 ay nagging si LEVEL 1.

chadlazaro:

Sana, dumating yung panahon na hindi na ako nasasaktan pag naiisip kita.

ikaw na nagkulang, ikaw pa nagtatampo?

HAHAHAHAHA tangina. Tiisin mo sarili mo.

There are days when you just want to be the other version of you. :)) #ootn going to punchline. First time ko magco-comedy bar. HAHAHA #stayweird #selfie #saturday

There are days when you just want to be the other version of you. :)) #ootn going to punchline. First time ko magco-comedy bar. HAHAHA #stayweird #selfie #saturday

A smile is the lighting system of the face, the cooling system of the head and the heating system of the heart.

keiapooo:

Paano naman ako mahuhulog sayo e sa ngiti mo palang di na ako makatayo.

Letters for my body parts.

Dear Eyes, Sorry for making you cry. Sorry for the things you saw. Sorry for the painful moments that is visible to you. Sorry for some nights that I cannot let you close and rest. Sorry for over-using you during midnights.

Dear Mouth, Sorry for letting you smile when it is not really what you want to do. Sorry for making you say things which are not true. Sorry for using you to make other people see that I’m okay. Sorry for shutting you up when in times that I need to say something but I can’t.

Dear Heart, Sorry for being broken. Sorry for loving someone who is not worth it. Sorry for the damage that I’ve done. Sorry for not taking care of you. Sorry for all the pain. Sorry for the lost. Sorry for being miserable.

Dear Mind, Sorry for being so stupid. Sorry for being so careless. Sorry because I don’t listen to you. Thank you for the warnings and things to remember. You were right. I wished I listened to you.

— (via fuckyeahmeyn)